Like Charlotte'e works, there are many layers here, but yours come from the instances of sharing. Each time we have been able to glean another facet and a greater depth of insight.
I think in know her as a friend, but I also think I know Madonna Sting, Elton John and Marylyn Monroe. But in truth, my insights are stitched together enough to recognize the person only.
You have the privilege of actually knowing her!
Asher