Australians are not alone. There is a certain hell perpetrated against women all over this world. Men should stand up and defeat it. There can be no tolerance for terror. Give Christine another hug.
I know this is not a local event, nor is it a hiccup in our cultural behaviour. There are many examples world wide where women are placed into a position of subservience, either mentally or physically, under religious pretence or just plain greed.
Many of these attitudes are reinforced by the politics or religion and excused on the basis that its 'their' business and we shouldn't interfer or speak out.
Yet when women come from other places and their men continue to place place expectations on women that are not tolerated in the new environment.
Men are the greatest perpetrators of domestic violence and restrictions of women. Historically, this has been consistent through the ages. It is so ingrained in our culture it may take a nuclear demolition to remove it.
There is so much we can do. On a personal level I can only reassure Christine of her worth by active participation in her well being.
On a broader scale, men can be visible in their fight to prevent violence against women.
On a political level, laws care being passed which will make a difference.
Women also need to stand up and be counted, but I can understand how hard that can be after a lifetime of persecution.
And its not just the big things. Its the very expectation that men have of women. As innocent as it might seem, anything which removes the choice from a person, let alone a woman, is to be scrutinised and terminated.
Being married to Christine has been an eye opener for me. I didn't realise what an ****, male, chauvinist pig I was until it was explained to me. Now I'm the biggest advocate for dealing with family violence and the rights of women.
Mind you, I still like the look of a nice pair of tits and a firm arse, but as I say to Christine, "Not as good as yours my dear"