Based on your earlier reaction to critiques I've no expectation that you'll take mine earnestly, either. But I feel compelled to offer it anyway.
So, Jan, here is my simple suggestion: More camera, less computer.
Your Canon Rebel is capable of producing a much, much better image that you've shown in any of your posts. You are being far too heavy-handed with your Photoshop work and you're poorly skilled at it. (With all due respect, based on your over-sharpening tendency and your extreme color imbalances I wonder if a trip to the optometrist might not be in order.)
Just take the damn pictures and share them with us. Only use Photoshop for absolutely essential tasks. I suspect that your eye is far better than your mouse.
So let's see some of your real photography.