I think it's important to remember that our feelings are never wrong. Our feelings are what they should be. It's how we express them/act on them that sometimes gets us into trouble
Rachel,
We think of man being made in the image of god. If that's totally true, then perhaps, you might be correct that "feelings are never wrong". Then, of course, we'd never have known racism or people considered as "pestilence" or "revolting garbage" to be incinerated. I saw a video of little Irish Catholic school girls, pretty in their neat uniforms and teddy bear-backpacks, having to brave a daunting gauntlet of cursing, hateful protestant housewives making it terrifying experience just to get to school. I have no doubt that the women are good mothers, good churchgoers and give to charity. They just happen to have the wrong feelings!
So, let's put aside the idea of man in the image of God, for these folks. Rather I'd offer you that however made, man is at birth a raw unorocessed child-ape descendant, an animal, with no refinement, just urges, perhaps with the fortune of good parents, perhaps watched by angels, but perhaps not.
So our feelings can be primitive and sometimes what we'd want to disown as we mature. Certainly not automatically "never wrong"!
Let's imagine, for the sake of argument, that I myself am a recovering homophobic, so to speak. From my upbringing then, my instant feelings can be distasteful. That's just what's absorbed from wrong upbringing and tribal culture over which one has little choice. Then education takes charge. Now, from my heart and mind new values take charge and those base but strongly eruptive feelings would have to be overcome and conquered, again and again. Feelings might never be utterly corrected. Feelings are therefore, IMHO not necessarily right, correct or appropriate. It not
how one expresses them that count, it's
how one allows them significance and brings one's higher values to bear.
Now back to photography. Nothing new, just look through your old stuff and see what you have forgotten! The superficial works here. Deal with what's on the surface and whatever's underneath can heal. That's why bandages work so well!
Asher