Sorry about the confusion re the '/' I usually check my posts via the 'preview' facility. I guess I didn't for this one. I am wondering where the '/' came from?
Asher probably gets tons of suggestions. It is not possible to please everybody, although I have a feeling that Asher is trying to do so.
It is easy for anyone to start a forum, free, adequate, software available, low cost hosting, and you are off. Then, you have to get the people you want, and keep out those you don't. Something like opf, however, is somewhat different. (the software is not free, maybe not even adequate..)
I guess it's like trying to run/organise something like the London Marathon, compared to a race at your school's sports day. Not just the complexity, but trying to make it worthwhile for the widely various levels of competence, and you don't know the runners.
Generally, most folk do what they can do. We all give our time. So, if you want a free course in photography, then you may not get it here. If you want an honest opinion on a photo, then you may get an opinion, but it may only be worth what you pay for it. But it is give and take, that is the subscription.
If you think you can join opf, get some free advertising for your product, well, that depends. You may not get what you bargained for. Why should anyone offer their time for free for others to make financial profit.
In general, we want to see progress, in the individual's taking part, and the forum itself. No idea how to define what I see as progress, without making a lot of alterations.
A relatively famous (at least for me) musician said that he liked playing the piano since he got 'reward for effort'. I think most folk who give a reply to a question, would appreciate seeing the recipient of the reply, at least trying it out, thinking about the answer, even if it is not what they wanted to hear. Alternatively, they can go elsewhere, and seek like minded people, and have a jolly time, but learn little. Your choice, my choice, whatever.
And then, there are those who like to just see there name on the web, for whatever reason. A picture of the cat - wow what a shot - That is of no interest to me, hence I rarely comment on those images. As folk round here say -' you can't teach pork'. But, if it gives others pleasure, then maybe that's OK. Do I want to be associated with that, by being a member here, I don't know? Maybe any club I'd want to join, wouldn't want me.
So, back to rules.
Look at something simple - themundayfunday thread or whatever it was called. Simple rule at the top of that thread. How much compliance? Should I delete most of ithe posts for not complying? Should I allow the other day's postings to be included with the folk who took the trouble to post on a Monday? Think about that. Think about rules, or not. None of this works by magic. I have a belief that the takers have no concern of how much the givers give, the 2000 odd lurkers, who never post - I would simply remove them, given my choice. I'd bring in rules, if you want rules, and even I'd be too frightened to post.
Most things of value are worth working for. Sometimes, you just have to work at it.
Best wishes,
Ray