James,
I love your spirit. I adore the family warmth in your pictures!
There are concerns, however in the public record from your IP address 122.176.12.245.
See are some examples
So do you run a mail server?
Why not tell us what "swift optimizer" does and "bundle of joy" represent.
I am open to an explanation.
Meanwhile, our software has automatically placed your IP address on probation pending clarification. Please do not see this as some condemnation, but we do need to protect the forum. You do have access to posting. We want to be welcoming and have some strong commitment to diversity. Your links however are temporarily removed pending sorting out these troubling issues of security.
Asher